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    '   anada                  "What is a Slut?"                 07 feb  '
   '     282                      by .no-one.                     2001    '
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        Most people, when they don't like a girl, call her a slut, a whore, a
 slag...

        She can do anything from flirt a little to sleep with 50 men, it
 doesn't matter, its all the same when you dislike someone.  But what is a
 slut?

        According to the dictionary, a slut is:

        Slut (SEXUALLY ACTIVE WOMAN) noun [C] DISAPPROVING

        A woman who has sexual relationships with a lot of men without any
 emotional involvement.  I saw you coming out of his room, you slut!  [As
 form of address]

        But anyone can be a slut, you wanna be a slut?  Kiss two guys!  Easy.
 Before long you'll have slept with a half a dozen men as the rumours start
 to fly.

        But are you really a slut, if someone says you are?  If you enjoy
 your sex life and make the most of it before you're old and grey and won't
 get it anymore?  You must be a slut if you're enjoying sex, only sluts enjoy
 sex!

        Think about this: you break up with your ex-boyfriend, and a couple
 of weeks later you see him kissing another girl, one of the first thoughts
 you'll have is *she’s such a slut!*.  Just because it hurts you.  Just
 because it's an easy insult, no matter if it’s true or not.  It’s so easy to
 say, we use it all the time.

        What pisses me off about it the most, is girls who call each other
 sluts.  We know what its like to be there, we know how fucking irrational it
 is, but yet it's still ok, they've kissed a few people, maybe had sex twice,
 they're such an easy whore!  Ask yourself if you consider you to be a slut.
 How many people have you slept with?  Were you in love with them *all*?  Did
 it mean anything?  Do you wear a short skirt and no knickers, do you lead
 men on, do you flirt?  If you answered yes to any of these questions, answer
 this one: can you think of someone who doesn't like you?  Chances are they
 think you're a slut.

        And it can hurt.  People do make mistakes, they don't think before
 they do, they can be pissed, and they can regret it afterwards.  Are they
 still a slut?

        So why are women called sluts (DISAPPROVING) and men called studs
 (stud (MAN) noun [C] SLANG a man who is thought to have sex a lot and be
 good at it.  In the film he plays a young stud whose extreme success with
 women is matched only by his extreme lack of brains.)?  Because men can
 enjoy sex and women can't.  Wait, what century are we living in again?
 Women don't enjoy sex, sluts just let men take advantage of them, to please
 men, to feel wanted, not because they like it?  These stone-age views
 fucking piss me off.  Even many women can't face up to the fact that they
 enjoy sex.  If a slut is someone who enjoys sex, well then I guess I’m a
 slut.

        I think its about time people faced up to the fact that either
 everyone is a slut, or no one is.  Men included, you think that when they
 have sex with a woman, they don't like the feeling of being wanted?  You
 think that when they sleep around, every girl means something to them?  Or
 is it just OK for men to enjoy sex but not for women, just because they’re
 men.

        Next time you're about to call someone a slut, ask yourself what do
 you know, what do you care, it is so bad and if you wanna carry forward
 these sexist views any longer.  Cause I fucking don't.

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 `   anada282   by .no-one.                         (c) 2001 anada e'zine   `